Suicide Awareness Month

Around 720,000 people die as a result of suicide every year according to the WHO.  Another shocking statistic is that suicide is one of the top three causes of death among young people aged between 15-29 years of age.

Suicide is more common in the springtime and on New Years day. Studies carried out regarding the link between Suicide and spring season state that suicide rates increase when the pollen count increases . These studies cite the link between inflammation and mood disorders . During springtime our bodies have an increased rate of inflammatory responses. Furthermore allergies can cause sleep disruption which can lead to anxiety and depression. CLAY CENTER FOR YOUNG HEALTHY MINDS.

Forms of therapy to try and alleviate suicidal thoughts are Cognitive Behavioral   therapy CBT AND Dialectal behavioral therapy DBT which deals with very intense emotions . This has been found to be somewhat successful in reducing suicidal thoughts in adolescents.

 

There are many signs listed online that could indicate someone is having suicidal thoughts however this is not always the case with someone who is suicidal. If you are concerned about someone you know or you are struggling please call Samaritans on 116123. This number is available 24 hours a day.

 

 

Understanding the facts can help you to help someone struggling to cope.

Empathetic Listening: Feeling Beyond Hearing

You've probably had a moment like this. I was in a meeting with a senior leader, and as I was presenting I looked over towards him and was met with this blank, impassive stare. It felt like he was just counting the seconds until it was his turn to speak. He wasn't listening, he was just hearing, and I left not only feeling unheard but also disheartened & disrespected. But haven't we all been that distracted listener? Perhaps texting someone else during an important chat? Today we discuss the value of empathetic listening.

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/empathetic-listening-feeling-beyond-hearing-mike-peditto/

 

If You Want To Be An Empathic Listener, Stop Using This Word

Listening with empathy is a critical skill for anyone who wants to succeed at work. Salespeople with great listening skills sell more. Physicians with great listening skills face fewer malpractice lawsuits and have better patient outcomes. Leaders with great listening skills have more inspired and engaged employees.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/markmurphy/2017/07/09/if-you-want-to-be-an-empathic-listener-stop-using-this-word/?sh=4e6555052df1

 

Empathy vs. Sympathy, How to Listen to Someone’s Pain

Empathy vs. Sympathy

For those unfamiliar, a quick summary of empathy, it’s choosing to step into the shoes of another, to see them as they are and honor their story with more questions or quiet. Sympathy is empathy’s immature sister in bright red lipstick and too much eyeliner. It looks like trying to compare stories, gushing at a person sharing over how their story affects you and giving advice. Sympathy focuses on the discomfort of the listener and tries to ease it, empathy focuses on the discomfort of the speaker and knows it can’t ease it. By using empathy and knowing that you cannot ease the pain of another, you can make them heard, which lightens their load. 

https://www.shieldhealthcare.com/community/grow/2020/01/29/empathy-vs-sympathy-how-to-listen-to-someones-pain/